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MAKING PRAYER HARDER THAN IT NEEDS TO BE

4/9/2015

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By Tammy Grebel
Connections Pastor

I make prayer harder than it needs to be.  Sometimes it can be a struggle and it can be intimidating.  It can seem like a waste of time when I don’t get the answers I want.  My prayers are often times selfish, and at times highlight my insecure faith.  Prayer does not always come naturally, and I think we all, at times, struggle with it.

There are times in which I have full, long conversations with God.  Other times they are more like quick little “text messages”.  And other times, I have had what I call Concerts of Prayer.  This is where my prayer continues off and on throughout the day.  

A lot of times my prayers would start as a “laundry list”; just rattling off what I think I need, with no real conviction or feeling.  “God please help me….”   “Please be with…..”  “Grant me…..”    It was generally about me.    The dictionary defines prayer as communion, and act of worship.  When my prayers are about me, it is most definitely not an act of worship.  

There are various examples of prayer in the Bible.  Jesus shows us the way to pray in Matthew 6:9-13.  It is like he knew prayer would not be easy for us.  The Lord’s Prayer is not flowery or eloquent.  It just speaks.  It was a very heartfelt prayer from Jesus, as he knew his future….the cross.  That is what I take away…a heartfelt conversation with God.  Prayer then becomes wanting to be obedient to Him, knowing that, just as I listened to my children and was patient with them, He is the same, if not more so with me.

God wants us to seek Him.  To commune with Him.  He longs to be with us and included in our thoughts.  He wants to talk with us during the good times and the bad.  He even wants us to commune with him when we don’t really have much to say.  Many times our most broken and messy prayers are also our best.  They turn out to be our most heartfelt prayers.  CS Lewis says:

I have a notion that what seem our worst prayers may really be, in God’s eyes, our best…
For these, perhaps, being nearly all, will come from a deeper level than feeling.
- CS Lewis, from
Letters to Malcolm: Chiefly on Prayer

Many times my prayers are a cry to believe that God really does “have it” and that I can give up control and let Him.  My prayers and time with God has evolved.  It has taken deliberate time, uncomfortableness, self-realization and giving up control.  My God loves me.  He wants me to be real with Him.  He knows my heart already, he just wants me to talk to him about it.  He wants me to include him.  I just have to open the door to my heart and mind and let him.  He doesn’t want me making it harder than it needs to be.



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